Monday, September 30, 2024

Fourth Quarter Focus!

Happy Monday... today is a brief life update and gearing up for the rest of 2024!

I was sad to hear that Maggie Smith (also known as The Dowager Countess, Professor McGonagall, and the Reverend Mother) died last week.  Rest in peace!

Kyndal Faith had five hours of club volleyball tryouts yesterday.  (2.5 hours for Oklahoma Peak then 2.5 hours for Charge... insane and irritating to me that they put them all on the same day).  She made the Charge 11s team she was hoping for with Coach Rose, so hooray for that!


In other delightful news, I passed my CPCE (Counseling Professional Comprehensive Examination) early Saturday morning!!  One step closer to graduation, and that gives me more confidence for the National Counselor Exam next month!

I spent a good portion of the past weekend on Picaboo working hard to narrow down and creatively arrange five years of photos into two thick scrapbooks in time for their major sale that ends today... DONE and ordered! =)  Grateful for all the fun events and personal growth represented here... and excited to see the books in person when they arrive!!

This cuteness was September 1st at the Wilsons' Labor Day pool party! ❤

September has been a whole journey..
  • Above-mentioned pool party
  • Labor Day Tulsa trip with the fam
  • Started Coach Builder
  • New iMac computer
  • Photo wall update
  • Several important/hard conversations
  • Spiritual attack & spiritual formation 
  • Monday night family dinners
  • Counseling sessions
  • 3-month surgiversary
  • Two OSU games
  • Carter's rodeo competition
  • Started BSF on Revelation
  • Mentoring with Abby
  • Updated my resume
  • Video Interview w/CCU
  • Tulsa trip with Kristin
  • Wednesday walks with Kristin
  • Signed up for nutrition counseling
  • Vulnerability hangover
  • Social media shutdown
  • Lots of study time
  • Passed the CPCE
  • Misdemeanor jury trial
  • Catholic church visit & paper
  • J&K horseback riding lessons w/Carter
  • Tiffany's emergency surgery
  • Discovered Jefferson Fisher
  • Kyndal's VB tryouts
  • Several great audiobooks
  • Caught up on 5 years of scrapbooking
  • Finished Launch Project #3
My fourth-quarter focus is as follows:

1.  Union with Jesus -- seeking Him first... pressing into God's Word and prayer and the RELATIONSHIP with Jesus (over head knowledge or looking for synchronicities as "signs" from Him)

2.  Strong & Healthy Body -- working on food habits and mindset with Rachel & Emily; Peloton HCOTF workouts 6 days a week and walking the Half-Marathon with Kristin

3.  Career Decision -- pass the NCE, update my resume to reflect that, consider all available options, narrow it to my top 3-5 and send out applications, and (Lord willing) officially decide on my next step moving forward!!

In some of the more difficult conversations this month, I realized I haven't fully understood or communicated my priorities well.  I want to be more clear about that going forward.  Donald Miller says you should always have 3 meaningful goals you're working toward -- (more would be overwhelming and cloud your focus, and fewer would be too narrow).  So much feels up in the air for me right now, and I do not love that feeling.  But I can't afford to wallow in a fog of being overwhelmed or feeling paralyzed by overthinking.  For this specific season, my top priorities need to be my spiritual life, my physical health, and my future career path... trumping any goals related to finances, future education, emotional growth, dating/marriage, adoption/parenting, socializing/making new friends, book writing, etc.  The other categories may get promoted and take precedence in 2025, but this gives me clarity to focus on what matters most right now and avoid getting sidetracked.

One big test down, one to go!
7.5 semesters of grad school down, .5 to go!
21 required courses down, 3 to complete!
Three quarters of 2024 down, one to go!

#tswift

Fourth-quarter comeback - let's freaking go!! #maximumeffort

Okay, I'm done now.  In case no one else tells you today, I want to tell you that I love you and I believe in you, and I believe in your ability to FINISH STRONG!!

Friday, September 27, 2024

Old School Photo Friday!

Happy Friday, friends!!  So I clicked the wrong button a few days back (importing from Blogger photo albums instead of Google Photos)... which led me to a plethora of pics from yesteryear that I was happy to see again, so that's the inspiration for today's trip down memory lane. YAY!!  =)

At their fancy 2016 Christmas dinner parties, Mom put J&K in charge of giving people their parting gifts as they left... this = them being adorable and very excited and impatient for people to get up and leave! lol

Preshface Mini Miss K with a side ponytail at the CHA Patriotic Program

Jace, T-man, and K surprising me in the back of my car ready to head back to Tulsa with me! ;-)

Random sister pic since Rach had made this sign for the LifeChurch event!

Lunch at Teresa's after hearing Michael preach! =)

Aww, the Bitmoji days! lol

Thankful for Creek County memories with these two! =)

Ashley Campbell for the win with this advice!!

Jace's baseball game!

Our Egg-mazing Easter fun!

JEM and baby Tate six years ago!

Great reminder for me back then and today!

So much cuteness!

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Neal Caffrey!  This makes me wanna watch White Collar again - such a good show!!

Another reminder from Mr. Eldredge!

One of my fav pics - everyone trying to get Tate to smile after dinner at Sarah's old apartment!

My original Christmas colors! =)

Mosses... love these Ring doorbell pics from 522! =)

Retirement party for "JSV!!"

A presh gif of my presh niece!  Side note - I want one of those rolls with cinnamon butter! lol

Aww, a classic Vegas "Glamour Shots" collage! lol

And a classic Point of Grace remake! 

Miss K ready for Emily and Chas's wedding!

Billy Bob's Dairyland in Branson!

Beauty and the Beast movie night

Aww, memories at 7734 Doris Drive

NYE at Russo's (not sure what we were laughing at, but it makes me happy either way)

JEM making sopapilla cheesecake for us when he invited our group over very early in the friendship! I remember it being a running joke for a bit that he was stealing Jay's friends, which ironically turned out to be kinda true. lol

The 9121 Friends wall!

Swimming with Kristin and baby Diesel!

From my Liar Liar post! lol

The Little Boo Puppy in a little bike basket - gah, I love it! ❤

Airport shot from my 30th bday Vegas trip ten years back!

My sparkly pink violin... I'd definitely forgotten about this short-lived hobby! lol

Bella-Bellsy being understandably scared of the moustache version of Evan! lol

Chips & queso at an LG party at Blake's... I had just gotten my new camera, so I was practicing with it regularly! lol

LB in the pink tree (joining our Women's DDLG road trip for the Azalea Festival)

Tahlequah park across from Sam n' Ella's!!

Berry best girlfran puppies with me in a video for one of JEM's birthdays!

Baby Miss K in her Christmas onesie PJs - CUTENESS. ❤

#thefourhorsemen or #horsebros at Jeff's 33rd bday at The Phoenix - lol

Very blonde 2007 me with Bobbi and Angie shopping for a LG mission project =)

My header and sidebar verse for my original Heart of the Matter blog (that verse still means a lot to me today)!

In the Raw sushi for Bobbi's bday - you'll notice I'm not eating anything. lol

2010... Chettles kindly talked the group into postponing the planned Sam n' Ella's road trip bc I had to wait on a late jury verdict that day... then we all met for Starbucks instead!  Nater-tot avoiding the camera but doing the peace sign cracks me up here! =)

2007 me using the tan-skin feature on my camera to make myself look less pale, and it made Pastor Craig look *very* tan! lol

"The Chad Bear" - only Bachelorette season I've watched in years - my gosh, he was absurd and hilarious to me!

9121 Christmas living room! ❤

Our Ice Storm 2007 Bourne Trilogy Night LG Christmas Card! lol

On our way to my first hiking experience just outside of Vegas... the Wilsons were in the back... JEM turning around while driving makes me laugh! =)

And last but not least, here's one of my fav pics of Kyndal Faith! lol #messyhairdontcare

HAPPY FRIDAY!
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