Happy 70th Birthday to my wonderful Mom today!! ❤

I'm excited to celebrate her with the fam and the Wilsons later tonight! Just checked my phone, and Mom and I have had 13 phone calls in the past 3 days, and that's probably fairly average for us. I'm grateful for who Mom was to me through my childhood, for all the ways she showed up and listened well and helped with homework and took us shopping and made our home beautiful and fun and always welcomed our friends joining in... AND I'm grateful for the close relationship we've had through my adult life, knowing I can always call her for big and small things (and clearly, I do), knowing she will take my side in any argument ever - lol, and knowing she cares and would notice very quickly if I went missing or something went wrong! Finally, I am grateful that she gets to be "Mamaw" to Rachael's kids - her grandkids are her pride and joy, and I'm thankful for God's grace in getting her through the 2011 wreck and multiple rounds of cancer and major surgeries, very thankful she is healthy and sharp and able to host our weekly family dinners and be actively involved in all of our lives!! ❤❤
In other news, I learned this fun fact since my last post - yay!
My new fav pic of J&K... it was camo day at CHA, and Jace really went all out. lolol
Miss K wanting to be a vet when she grows up! =)
Random meme that made me laugh!
Made me think of this scene:
Martin: "Nooo, don't give him that stuff! Chocolate's bad for dogs!!"
Sarcastic Frasier: "Ironic, considering its vast health benefits for humans." lolol
I joined Rach in a lunch-hour meeting with Tracy, then she walked over with me to see my office and the courthouse for the first time... yay!!
One of the best and most simple illustrations for this I have seen. Fixed mindset is self-protective and focuses on your limits and keeps your life and your ambitions small... growth mindset feels more unfinished, but it leaves room to keep expanding and building a bigger life!
I wrote this calendar note to myself in January 2024. Listened to the podcast again, but I have zero idea what journal I was referring to... which led to me sifting through about 25 journals I've written in through the years trying to figure that out. lol
I did find other gems, though. lol Like these 25-year-old photo booth stickers from our Hawaii trip. I wish we had a bigger pic of me, Rach, and Emily... and it's funny to me that we even saved the top one! lol
Classic 1999 Lindsey, feeling guilty for being an imperfect human and confused about what would fix that + dotting my i with a Christian fish symbol and adding a snowflake at the end bc I was hoping to marry Daniel Snow down the road! lol Mess.
Aww, the randomness of HDW from yesteryear. lol Rach and I both laughed out loud at her quote about being Vice President!
Speaking of randomness, here's one of my prayer lists from 6th grade summer... my immediate family being at the bottom of the list that included all of America and "all catholics" is comical. lol
Still trying to figure out whether I was trying to draw a waistband and button or a midriff-baring crop top shirt, which I've worn zero times in my entire lifespan - the first makes far more sense, but the second is what I'm seeing. lol I like that my 8th grade self chose this cheesy gem as "my song," though!
I so remember that trial in Chickasha... him and Kenneth Smith are the two defendants in my 20-year career who I was adamantly for and believe they were wrongly charged and prosecuted... the jury agreed with me both times, so yay! Then I decided to write about JMM memories "because I was bored..."
Annnd 17 actual pages later, I stopped for that day at #50! Gracious, 21-year-old Lindsey was a hot mess. lol
Why did I feel the need to draw my fav Marble Slab dessert? lol I dunno, but that and me saving the movie flier from 2001 bring me joy!
Me diary-venting five days before she and God gave me the chance to prove it. I've been aware of this entry and the timing of it for a while, but just today noticed the verse at the top of this page (about God's faithfulness in seasons of lament, His goodness and mercy to those who depend on Him and seek Him). My emotions and feelings about Malori have shifted approximately 100,000 times since I wrote this. That verse and God's faithfulness have never shifted. Seriously, what a gift for that to be on this particular page!
There are 31 journals/diaries pictured here, not including my blog books, Write the Word journals, Bible study homework journaling, various scrapbooks, Xanga and MySpace blogs, and this 17-year blog. A great deal of the content is mundane nonsense, but I'm grateful that I lead a ridiculously well-documented life!
And I'm ready to sift through it for the stories and details that matter most as I start my memoir book this year! I need to average 500 words a day from now to June 21st - some subjects will need more and some less, but that's the general goal. The game plan:
- Personal writing style inspired by own blog + the writings of Shauna Niequist, Donald Miller, John Eldredge, Ally Fallon, Annie F. Downs, Eddie Kaufholz, Melanie Shankle, Sophie Hudson, Ashley Campbell, and Mel Robbins!!
- 77 brief essay chapters (already outlined), averaging 900 words each = approximately 70,000-word memoir book!! ❤
- Draft 1 Goal = June 21, 2025 (2 days per 1000-word essay, narrowing it all down later!)
- 70 days to go back and make personal edits from June 22 to September 1st, then give it to a few friends/family to read and get their feedback!
- Have an actual draft ready to submit or self-publish by Christmas of 2025!
I love this navy mud bench with cheerful yellow decor in my entryway, and it makes me happy to be using it for actual coats and scarves this year!!
Excited to see this preshface and her family later today! ❤
On that note, happy half-birthday to Chettles!!
Well, this post is super random, but such is life. Happy Saturday, friends and fam! I'm sore from my 7.3 miles yesterday afternoon, and I'm supposed to do 4 more today. It's getting real now!! Hope you see God's faithfulness any time you look back on your own life story, and hope you enjoy the long weekend ahead!
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