Thursday, September 26, 2024

Thankful Thursday #207!

"Now may the Lord of peace Himself
give you His peace at all times
and in every situation.
The Lord be with you all."

~2 Thessalonians 3:16

Today, I am grateful for...

1.  The Fall season, which officially began last Sunday!  This cooler weather is delightful, not to mention the football games, the autumn scents, and the delicious fall flavors at Nothing Bundt Cakes!!

2.  Feeling better and more like myself here at the end of a rough month. ❤


3.  Navigating the hormonal shifts that accompany rapid weight loss is no joke, but overall, I'm super-grateful for the physical improvements... including being at my listed driver's license weight for the first time in all my 24 years of driving!! lol


4.  Extra margin and down-time to study (four mock tests and lots of shorter practice sessions) since we don't have any trials going, and a kind comment from Mel Robbins on my #WednesdayWins Launch post this week!

5.  A good walk-and-talk with Kristin (along with fun food trucks and a huge Wednesday worship night crowd), and meeting her later for lunch today!! =)


6.  This timely reminder that our lives have an impact NOW, even before we decide on our next major step forward!


7.  The ways God is continuously challenging me and changing my perception... here's to courageous conversations, dissolving limiting beliefs, upgrading my faith, and expanding my identity!!

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Sunday, September 22, 2024

The Solid Rock

The OSU vs. Utah game yesterday... the Cowboys lost in spite of a strong 4th quarter comeback, but it was still a fantastic time!  (Mom and Kyndal had a last-minute change of heart this week, and unfortunately, no one else was able to rally and join us on such short notice.)


I feel happy and at home in this crowd, and I'm thankful for loads of great memories in Stillwater!

Once again, the north side sun and heat were intense... yay for this fan from my fav realtor! lol

Dad and I had a good talk on the drive there... then we got there early enough to grab some food and still be outside in time to see the band, Bullet, the National Anthem, and the Kurt speech as the players came in... all fun!!  We went back in through the second quarter, but spent most of our time outside!  We also ran into Lisa and Andy, CHA parents from Rachael's class, so that was fun!

This morning was my first Catholic Mass experience... really interesting.  I Googled large Catholic church near me and found "The Blessed Stanley Rother Shrine."  (I wanted to sit in the back and not feel obligated to converse, and that worked out well).  The building and the sanctuary are very pretty and ornate!

Lots of things about this experience were interesting for me.  When someone got up to use the restroom or to take their kids out or to leave the service, they would take a knee or bow or curtsey toward the altar at the front as a sign of respect for Christ - I love that.  I wanted a program or bulletin to fill me in on all the things they said in unison - I was never sure and the building was large enough that it all became a muffled echo.  Anyway, this is for a paper in my Spiritual Formation class where we were supposed to visit a church in the Protestant/Catholic spectrum that was culturally different than what we grew up in.  Then write a paper about the experience and how we might tailor our counseling for someone from that religious tradition.

In lighter news, here's J&K in their 2024 Halloween costumes - they were so excited to FaceTime and show me - I was pretty excited too!! lol  

Diving deeper, I deactivated my social media on Friday and felt a sharp wave of emptiness and ambiguous grief that night.  I've been surrounded by distractions like scrolling, audiobooks, podcasts, and music - but now, I'm choosing to embrace more solitude, confront newly-discovered blind spots, and take full responsibility for my energy, my relational impact on others, and my sincere obedience to God. Praying to hear from Him and walk with Him in new ways in the 4th quarter of this year!  In the meantime, I’ve been redirecting my habitual phone-checking toward practicing for the NCE exam. =)

September has been deeply challenging... but I trust that God is at work, even if I don't fully understand it yet.  On this restful and rainy Sunday, I’m reminded of my 2013 conversation with Jeffrey Edward - that Jesus is my solid foundation, and all other ground is sinking sand.  For now, I'm staying close to Him as other things continue to shift, fade, and/or settle into a new place.  With major decisions ahead, I sense that God is shaking everything that can be shaken, so that only the unshakable remains (Heb. 12:27). ❤


And as always, He is not going anywhere.
On Christ the solid Rock, we stand.
All other ground is sinking sand.
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Friday, September 20, 2024

Friday Fun (Memes & More)

Huzzah that the end of this Jury Term week has finally arrived!

I laughed way too hard at this bumper sticker on my way to work this morning - I feel like I would totally be friends with this woman. lol

Been here for sure...

True story...

An abrupt shift in tone, but I thought this was worth saving. ❤

I adore the Spongebob flower memes. lol

This too shall pass.

Love the Holistic Psychologist - love this encouragement!  "You have more choice and control in your life than you've been told."

My stomach seems extra-vocal lately so this made me laugh!

My future besties! =)

Amy and Joy (my CCU friends) dropping their daughters off for their freshman year of college in Arkansas!!

One of many fav quotes by Michael Scott

Yep. lol  Love deep talks and casual hangouts, but I do not ❤ group projects!

Mmmm, okay!!

This one is so true for me.

Reminding myself of this...

"The channel through which you develop your deepest beliefs about yourself" hit me!

Another great Holistic Psychologist post...

Made me laugh...

Often true.

Brach's Autumn Mix... yes, please!

Communication is key...

A delicious Chicken Salad Chick lunch and a good talk with Mom today (we also ran into Hilary, my cousin's wife)!

Gracious, I can't even explain how appropriate and timely this post feels right now. lol  The chaos is real in stores and in life, "the changing of all seasons at once!"

Song of the Week = Broken Halos by Chris Stapleton (bad theology as people don't become angels when they die, but fantastic song that I love anyway)

Okaaaaay, that's really all for now! lol
HAPPY FRIDAY!!
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Thursday, September 19, 2024

Book Reports

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1.  Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become like Him, Do as He Did by John Mark Comer

This author comes recommended by Dr. Burkhart and John Eldredge, so I went into it pretty confident it would be good.  It did not disappoint - inviting, poignant, convicting, and theologically solid!
Quote:  “Information alone does not produce transformation. Because knowing something is not the same as doing something, which is still not the same as becoming the kind of person who does something naturally as a byproduct of a transformed inner nature.” ~John Mark Comer

2.  Iona Iverson's Rules for Commuting, a novel by Clare Pooley

A group of strangers riding the same morning train who gradually form rich, multi-generational friendships and support each other through various challenges (like aging, grief, discrimination, divorce, starting over, bullying, toxic relationships, and unrequited love) - absolutely loved it!
Quote:  “You're not past it!  You're not insignificant...  If you give up, they win!  They want us to be small, so we have to stand tall.  They want us to be invisible, so we have to be seen.  They want us to be silent, so we have to be heard.  They want us to surrender, so we have to fight.” ~Emma and Bea

3.  Hello Stranger, a novel by Katherine Center

A story about the aftermath of grief in a family and about first impressions not always being correct.  It also highlights the value of being honest when you're hurting or needing help.
Quote:  “But I guess that’s the great thing about life—it gives you chance after chance to rethink it all. Who you want to be. How you want to live. What really matters... Light matters just as much as darkness. Play matters as much as work, kindness matters as much as cruelty, and hope matters as much as despair. More so, even. Because tragedy is a given, but joy is a choice.”

4.  A Fine Sight to See: Leading Because You Were Made for It by Sophie Hudson

My hilarious podcast friend - yay!  Written for Christian women, this one is empowering, entertaining, and grounded in Biblical truth.
Quote:  “Sometimes our tendency as women is to fix our eyes on our mistakes, our regrets, and our shame with laser-like precision.  And doing that keeps us from moving forward in the ways the Lord has made us to see the world around us, love the people around us, and use our voices for good!” ~"Soph" =)

5.  The Authenticity Project, a novel by Clare Pooley

Easily my favorite read in 2024 - loved all the fascinating twists and colorful characters!  A story about a journal that gets passed around where people write the truths they don't usually say out loud... and several characters who meet and form relationships because of what they chose to share there.  There's an older single woman named Monica who is artistic and loves creating community but fears really being seen, who appears put together and organizes her bookshelves by color, and who writes about her deep desire to become a mom and the inner conflict she feels about wanting that while also feeling pulled to do something bigger with her life.  So obviously, I was hooked early on, and I loved this whole story about the way we view and define ourselves, the image we present when the truth is actually more likable, the weaknesses we dwell on versus the strengths others may see in us, the power of being open to something new, and the beauty of unexpected friendships and growth!!
Quotes:  “Perhaps the compulsion to fill every inch of space was because it made him feel less alone, or because every single object was imbued with memories of happier times, and the objects had proven more reliable than the people... 'All these things, all these memories, they’re just suffocating you, keeping you stuck in the past. You have new friends now, and home is wherever they are. You could buy a new flat and start afresh. Imagine that,’ she said, staring at him intently.”

"How extraordinary that she had been envying Monica’s life, when all the time all Monica wanted was what she took most for granted."

"The truth often isn't pretty. It's not aspirational. It doesn't fit neatly into a little square on Instagram... Surely it would be better to live a messy, flawed, sometimes not very pretty life that was real and honest, than to constantly try to live up to a life of perfection that was actually a sham?"

“Monica, I read something on Instagram the other day. It said, Mother is a verb, not a noun. I think it means there are many ways to mother without actually being one. Look at you and your cafĂ©. You nurture loads of people every day.”

6.  The Rom-Commers, a novel by Katherine Center

A man and woman who are both quietly grieving different things team up to write a romantic comedy and gradually fall in love.  The dramatic twists felt a bit predictable and overblown to me, but overall, it was a good story, and I always appreciate her Author's Note at the end.
Quote:  “I had a theory that we gravitate toward the stories we need in life. Whatever we are looking for- adventure, excitement, emotion, connection-we turn to stories that help us find it. Whatever questions we’re struggling with- sometimes ones so deep, we don’t even really know we’re asking them- we look for answers in stories.” ~Katherine Center
It's very rare for me to read more fiction than nonfiction, but I needed something more relational and story-focused in this season, and I'm so glad to have found Clare Pooley this year... love her books!!  (To each their own... Clare and Katherine both write good, hopeful stories... however, Katherine's plots revolve around romance and her female characters can be obnoxiously naive, while Claire's plots about unlikely friendships weaving together have been far more interesting and complex, and her characters feel deeper, richer, and more nuanced and believable to me!)

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Thankful Thursday! (206)

"The end of everything is near. Therefore, practice self-control, and keep your minds clear so that you can pray.  Above all, continue to love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins."  ~1 Peter 4:7-8

Today, I am thankful for...

1.  Being in a season where I'm able to commit to the 2024 Bible Study Fellowship study of Revelation + feeling excited about the community and the content there!

2.  Exciting mail... like my rosegold glitter MagicBand for the November Disney trip!

3.  A fun Sunday in Tulsa with Kristin Michelle and the Wilson fam!

4.  A more vibrant and colorful photo wall update - hooray! ❤

5.  Texting, studying, and enjoying time with Abigail Meili (pronounced "Miley")... I was hesitant and unsure what I was signing up for, but I'm so happy about getting to know Abby and mentoring her through a writing project in the first half of this school year!

6.  Loving grandparents and the vital role they play... Pic #1 = Tate with Teresa, Bill, and Melissa for Evergreen's Grandparents' Day last week! ❤


Pic #2 = Mamaw and Grandpa with their four grandkids, Christmas Eve 2022!

Pic #3 = Me, Rach, Emily, and Blake with Babah and Grandad, Christmas Eve 2018!  *September 16th was the one-year anniversary of Babah joining Grandad in Heaven - I'm grateful they were a part of our lives for so many years and for  all the good things I learned from both of them!

7.  Our Monday night dinner with Dad's side of the family at BJs in Norman - I didn't get a photo of our whole group of 30, but I enjoyed catching up with T-man and the Whitakers, and I got this lovely pic with Mom after dinner! =)


*Bonus:  Thankful for my beautiful niece and handsome nephews, for our individual connections, and for their school pics this year!  (Triston's a Junior, Jace is in 6th grade, and Kyndal is in 5th).

Happy Thursday!!
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